Some things are better left unsaid.
Some things are labelled or defined black and white, but some things just need to linger in the grey areas before the heart and mind are aligned.
We were married for close to 25 years and I have the most beautiful wife on earth. I married my best friend, and our marriage was romance and flowers. We talk about everything. Absolutely everything. We talked about our dreams and deepest fear.
I always thought marriage between best friends can only come about when we are open and honest enough with each other. And that marriage between best friends holds no secrets. The marriage road is a rocky one, but honesty brought couples closer and closer each day.
They can spend the whole night talking because they would tell their best friend – which is absolutely everything.
Come to think about it, it is not the truth that destroys friendships/ marriages/ relationships.
It is the things left unsaid that destroys.
Talk to each other. Be honest with each other.